Long Distance Relationship 8th Episode

Subject: Spend your Saturday night doing what you like and IGNORE other lovers

Someday *pray*

Saturday night, the night people call as "love night", is a bitch when you're being away from your husband or lover. My advice, DON'T GO OUTSIDE, you'll only hurt yourself. Why is that so? Because outside on Saturday night is a hell kinda view. You see couples everywhere spending their satnite happily. It hurts for us LDR couples. All you can do is SUCK IT UP and IGNORE the lovey dovey couples.

Therefore, spend your satnite in your room and do stuffs you like. For me, I do blogging, listen to electronic dance music (because I love this kind), reading, and bbm-ing or twitter-ing with my husband. You can choose your own favorite kind of activities. Just, avoid going outside. Unless, you're hanging out with your friends. That's fine then. 

So yeah, you find it tricky when coping with LDR on satnite. You can't just blatantly ignore the fact that you really want to spend your satnite with your husband, wife or lover. At least, you try your best and I'll salute you who can made it through the night. :D LOL

Keep calm and fight the distance. Made it through the night.

Will Do :')

to be continued

X.O.X.O Chirpy Girl

Long Distance Relationship 6th and 7th Episode

Subject : Sensitive and Wild Mind

To prove a point of the story :D

When you are far away from your husband or your lover, your mind goes wild. It gets worst when you are PMS-ing. Everything becomes super-sensitive, super-annoying, super-weird. One little problem becomes a big thing when you're PMS-ing. Long distance, low frequency of meeting, and PMS are not a good combination. Trust me, you will suddenly have trust issues, you will feel very annoyed when you find your texts or any kind of messages you sent are not being responded, and you'll be super sensitive and fragile. In other word, when you're PMS-ing, you're kinda punish your man severely. 

Why women have to go through that PMS? Well, isn't that the beauty of being a woman. You kinda have excuse for your annoying behavior. Simply say, "I'm sorry baby, it's the PMS thing. You understand it, right? Will you forgive me?". It'll shut him right up and he won't flip out because of our annoyance (hehehe, what an excuse). Okay, that's just a joke. Don't make your PMS as any excuse for your bad mood.

This is why I call it good excuse :D

Excuses or not, when you're PMS-ing, you do have that tendency in being super sensitive about what's happening around you. However, when you're in a committed relationship like marriage, you have to think before you do. You have to think twice before you burst into flame and hurt your spouse because you put your marriage on risk here. You absolutely don't want separated over one silly fight causes by sudden rage. You have to calm your mind and think ahead. If you think you have to take a moment to cool your mind and hear then take your moment. After cooling down your rage, talk to your spouse and apologize.

You don't wanna be putting your marriage on stake. Calm your mind, don't let it go wild or you're end up being all alone and in a deep regret.

Reaching your love surely hard but maintaining your love for a long haul is the hardest. You have to learn how to make sacrifices. Love your husband in the name of Allah (your God), then you'll know how grateful you are having him as a husband.

You know what this means, right? *wink*

I dedicate this silly story for my lovely husband who will always be there for me, no matter what. We fight to grow stronger. I love you, My Chubby Hubby Bala-bala.

My Baby Hueeyy Bala-bala :*

to be continued . . .

X.O.X.O Chirpy Girl

Long Distance Relationship (3rd, 4th, 5th episode)

Subject: Travelling Helps You Forget the Loneliness

When you travel a lot, trust me it will help your loneliness specially when you drive by your own car or motorcycle. For me, I love my motorcycle. Well, actually it's our (me and my husband) motorcycle since my husband is away so far, this ride is mine (hehehe). I named it Whisker. It's a big ride and so masculine. You know, when you ride that kinda motorcycle as a woman who wears a veil, trust me those eyes will be on to you. I don't know why. Well, maybe it's kinda bizarre for a veiled woman to ride that. My Whisker gives me a massive amount of energy. I feel so strong when I ride him and that's why I choose Whisker to accompany me everywhere I wanna go instead of using the public transportation service.

So, when you are in a log distance relationship, try my way. You don't have to travel by a motorcycle. You can choose your own ride that you feel comfortable with. You travel and you see what's outside, that'll help your loneliness, A LOT. Even though it doesn't make it gone but at least you made it through a day of loneliness. Time goes by as you travel and you won't even remember your loneliness, for a while at the very least.

to be continued . . .

X.O.X.O Chirpy Girl

Long Distance Relationship 2nd Episode

#Episode 2

Subject: I was never ready for him to leave

Do you know what it feels like when you have to make yourself busy in order to forget something sad? It feels terrible and only makes you do silly things. Okay, not all people do silly things, sometimes there are people who do useful things in order t forget their sadness. People deal with sadness differently, right?

In my case of being away from my husband, I did a bunch of silly things today. I still can’t forget the sadness I've been dealing with since he’s gone. I watched some series, i downloaded some e-books I don’t know if I will read them, I listened to some mellow music and sang along with it, I typed a bunch of sad stories and I locked myself in my room cuddled up my Domo pillow and doll.

The worst scene is that I supposed to finish my paper instead of doing all those silly activities. How can I encourage myself to focus on something like doing my paper while I’m in my mourning period? I miss him too damn much I can’t even think straight. This is what sadness and longing for your husband could do to you. It’s just too stressful to deal with. I suppose to rise up but I can’t. I guess I was never ready for him to leave.

to be continued . . .
X.O.X.O Chirpy Girl

Long Distance Relationship 1st Episode

#Episode 1

Subject: Being Miles Away Apart from My Chubby Hubby Bala-bala

Being away from your boyfriend is better than being away from your husband. Trust me!!! I’m going through a long distance relationship with my husband. Why is it more miserable being miles away from your husband than your boyfriend? Let me tell you the reasons.

First, sleeping alone on that king sized bed will kill you softly. Second, when you wake up and you find yourself all alone on the bed it terrifies you. It kind of reminds you of a disgusting one night stand thing (God Forbid). Third, usually you are busy taking care of your husband before he’s going to work and now you just have to take care of yourself, that’s it.  You kind of miss the bustle in the morning when you need to prepare one glass of hot tea or prepare a decent meal for your husband. You miss taking care of your husband. It’s a routine you used to and now that routine suddenly takes a long long break. On top of all those reasons, you miss the good night and the good morning kiss. The romance before bed, the comfort your husband giving you when you’re asleep, and the warmth on the bed in the morning.

Those reasons may look like being exaggerated but believe me, you don’t wanna be in that position (my position). What kind of wife who wants to be miles away apart from her husband, except the wife who unfortunately got married to a jerk? When you got married to a good guy, the right guy, the one destined to be with you, you will never ever want to be apart.

to be continued . . .
X.O.X.O Chirpy Girl