Saturday, November 23, 2013

Long Distance Relationship 6th and 7th Episode

Subject : Sensitive and Wild Mind

To prove a point of the story :D

When you are far away from your husband or your lover, your mind goes wild. It gets worst when you are PMS-ing. Everything becomes super-sensitive, super-annoying, super-weird. One little problem becomes a big thing when you're PMS-ing. Long distance, low frequency of meeting, and PMS are not a good combination. Trust me, you will suddenly have trust issues, you will feel very annoyed when you find your texts or any kind of messages you sent are not being responded, and you'll be super sensitive and fragile. In other word, when you're PMS-ing, you're kinda punish your man severely. 

Why women have to go through that PMS? Well, isn't that the beauty of being a woman. You kinda have excuse for your annoying behavior. Simply say, "I'm sorry baby, it's the PMS thing. You understand it, right? Will you forgive me?". It'll shut him right up and he won't flip out because of our annoyance (hehehe, what an excuse). Okay, that's just a joke. Don't make your PMS as any excuse for your bad mood.
This is why I call it good excuse :D


Excuses or not, when you're PMS-ing, you do have that tendency in being super sensitive about what's happening around you. However, when you're in a committed relationship like marriage, you have to think before you do. You have to think twice before you burst into flame and hurt your spouse because you put your marriage on risk here. You absolutely don't want separated over one silly fight causes by sudden rage. You have to calm your mind and think ahead. If you think you have to take a moment to cool your mind and hear then take your moment. After cooling down your rage, talk to your spouse and apologize.

You don't wanna be putting your marriage on stake. Calm your mind, don't let it go wild or you're end up being all alone and in a deep regret.

Reaching your love surely hard but maintaining your love for a long haul is the hardest. You have to learn how to make sacrifices. Love your husband in the name of Allah (your God), then you'll know how grateful you are having him as a husband.
You know what this means, right? *wink*


I dedicate this silly story for my lovely husband who will always be there for me, no matter what. We fight to grow stronger. I love you, My Chubby Hubby Bala-bala.

My Baby Hueeyy Bala-bala :*
to be continued . . .
X.O.X.O Chirpy Girl

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